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Joe Kinnear got judged by a different set of stats while he was Newcastle's interim manager, and they looked like this: 36 f-words, six b-words, four c-words; swearword total: 53. And that was just one press conference.
It turned out he was unhappy with reporting of his leadership of the club, and wanted to make his feelings known to local journalists. "I can't trust any of you," he said, in one of few full sentences safe for a family audience, before setting out his policy for dealing with the press. "I will pick two local papers and speak to them and the rest can fuck off. I ain't coming up here to have the piss taken out of me. I have a million pages of crap that has been written about me. I'm ridiculed for no reason. I'm defenceless. It's ongoing. It just doesn't stop."
To be fair, managers are under a lot of pressure and exposed to a great deal of public scrutiny, and over time it is easy to imagine this burden becoming hard to bear, and cracks starting to show. Thing is, at the time of his savage press conference, Kinnear had been at Newcastle for precisely one week.
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2) Avram Grant, Chelsea, April 2008
Reporters at the manager's press conference that followed Chelsea's 1-0 win at Everton in April 2008 could only dream about hearing 53 expletives. Despite a victory and a performance that proved, as the Guardian's match report put it, that "Chelsea were evidently superior to Everton", Avram Grant's post-match performance was both silly and sullen. In five minutes and 39 seconds of semi-silence Grant produced only 137 words, of which eight were "no", one was "yes", 21 were "I don't know" and five were "I have nothing to say". "He looked and sounded pathetic," we said, "his mumbling, incoherent comments undermining a pre-match appeal to be taken seriously."
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3) Rafael Benítez, Liverpool, January 2009
For a while, it was just an ordinary press conference. Rafael Benítez seemed relaxed as he looked ahead to Liverpool's visit to Stoke City but then he was asked about Sir Alex Ferguson, who had recently suggested that Benítez's side, leading the Premier League at the time, would choke under the pressure. He reached into a jacket pocket and retrieved a piece of paper.You want to shop moncler jackets because of their reputation? He unfolded it and started to read. What came next was premeditated reputation suicide.A great blend of our authentic Canada Goose Montebello Parka functionality and cutting edge style. "Maybe they are nervous because we are at the top of the table but I want to talk about facts," he said, introducing the word which he was to repeat five times in the next few minutes, and which continues to haunt him. "All managers need to know is that Mr Ferguson can talk about the fixtures, can talk about referees and nothing happens," he said. "We need to know that I am talking about facts, not my impression. There are things that everyone can see every single week."
Inevitably, Liverpool did choke, and United won the league. Ferguson and Benítez continue to feud, with the Scot dismissing the Spaniard as "lucky" when he was appointed by Chelsea last year, and Benítez still sticking by his controversial three-year-old comments. "I always try to concentrate on my job but at that time with Ferguson I was defending my club," he said recently. "I could see what was happening from my point of view, and maybe now a lot of people are seeing the same things. I will not talk too much about that because it's obvious. What I said at that time was what I thought and what I'm seeing now is similar."
4) Giovanni Trapattoni, Bayern Munich, March 1998
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Trapattoni wanted to defend himself and he wanted to do it in German. The fact that he could not speak German was not going to stop him, and what he lacked in linguistic fluency he made up for in a virtuoso display of table-banging fury. "These players complain more than they play!" he fumed. "Strunz! Strunz has been here two years, played 10 games, is always injured! How dare Strunz!" The players, Trapattoni said, were "weak like a bottle empty", and finally he concluded with the words "Ich habe fertig", literally "I have ready", but intended to mean "I have finished".
The conference was swiftly turned into a rap song, some of Trapattoni's more bizarre phrases, particularly his sign-off, immediately entered popular usage and Strunz has since credited the outburst with setting him up for a career in the media once he hung up his boots. "I was shocked. "But in order to work in television, as I do now, I needed a certain degree of notoriety. Trapattoni brought this to me."
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KMA, McClung Collection pool funds to bring Wiley painting home
A painting that may be among the best works by the late Knoxville impressionist Catherine Wiley has come home to East Tennessee.
The vibrantly colored portrait of a farmhand was recently purchased by the Knox County Public Library's Calvin M. McClung Historical Collection and Knoxville Museum of Art. Pooling resources and getting additional money from supporters, the two institutions bought the 1915 "Morning Milking Time" at a Dallas,Working out of power manage to shop moncler jackets property. Texas, auction in November. The oil on canvas went on exhibit last week in the KMA's "Higher Ground: A Century of Visual Arts in East Tennessee" exhibit. It will remain at the museum for now but will be shared by it and McClung.
Born in 1875 in what's now Lake City, Wiley was known for her brushwork and ability to capture light on canvas. She attended the University of Tennessee, studied art in New York and taught drawing and painting at UT. But her professional life was cut short in 1926 when she was placed in a Pennsylvania mental institution. She died 32 years later, never having painted again.
The bid price for "Morning Milking Time" was $62,500. Additional fees, including the auction house commission, raised the final purchase to about $77,000,Cheap parka Canada Goose Yorkville Parka will have fleece. said McClung Collection Manager Steve Cotham. Cotham and his assistant Laura Martin outbid six other bidders with their telephoned bid. "That was kind of our outer limit," he said of the price.
The 40-inch tall painting shows a mustached farmhand wearing a broad-brimmed hat. Looking directly out of the canvas, the man stands in a field carrying two empty pails in his right hand and a brown coat over his left arm.
The farm worker is a different subject for Wiley who often painted women and children in domestic settings. It's believed the subject of "Morning Milking Time" was a worker on the northwest Knox County farm of the artist's sister, June Wiley Letorey.
Both Cotham and Knoxville Museum of Art Executive Director David Butler said the portrait is an example of Wiley's best.
"She had such a facility with paint and could use it so masterfully," Butler said. "His face is so expressive and has such personality and character. Look at all the colors in his jacket — purple and peach and brown and blue. It's not a fancy subject but the way she puts paint on the canvas is just kind of breathtaking."
Cotham said Wiley admired the works of 19th-century French painter Edouard Manet who influenced Impressionist artists. "Morning Milking Time" reminds him of Manet. "I think it's one of her really good works," he said.
An Ohio-based art dealer who knew the KMA was interested in Wiley's work alerted the museum about the auction, said Butler. He joined forces — and finances — with Cotham to buy the work.
"Of course you don't know how much it will go for, but neither of us felt like we had the depth of reserves to just go for it alone. I think our stakeholders like that we are going together and supporting one another. It's just kind of a win-win," Butler said.
Before being auctioned the painting was in the art collection of the mortgage giant Countrywide Financial, Cotham said. It was briefly loaned back to East Tennessee in the early 1990s as part of an exhibit of Wiley's art.
The McClung and the art museum individually own other Wiley works. The KMA owns three other Wiley paintings and four drawings.What are ss uniform manager salaries? Two of those paintings also are in "Higher Ground," including the 1913 oil "Woman and Child in a Meadow" the museum bought for $107,000 last year at a Case Antiques Auction in Knoxville.
The McClung has the single largest collection of Wiley's works, which includes more than three dozen paintings, some dozen drawings and her scrapbooks. Wiley family members gave the McClung the art in the 1970s. Many of those paintings hang on the walls of the McClung's third-floor home of the East Tennessee History Center at 601 S. Gay St.
The museum doesn't have a designated acquisition fund,It necessary for you to own theduvetica jackets Women. something Butler hopes to start in the future. Museum supporters gave the KMA its part of the painting's price. Cotham also got some funds donated and pooled them with money from a bequest from the late Lucille Deaderick.Search a wide selection of supra shoes for sale. Ironically, it was Deaderick who helped the McClung acquire the Wiley works years ago.
"The more we do this the more people know we are interested in Catherine Wiley," Butler said. "I think we will continue to make discoveries. It's been wonderful that people really identify with her and that she's from here and they love her work."
- Feb 17 Sun 2013 15:55
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- Feb 17 Sun 2013 15:54
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Police Search For Man Assaulting Women On DU's Campus
University of Denver police say a man hides and then assaults women walking with a group of people. It's happened twice in two days near the DU campus.
Police believe the same man is responsible for both attacks. Campus police are working with Denver police to track down the suspect.
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Prepare now for next winter's coat wardrobe
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The following examples are tailored for women, but the analogous men's fashion choice isn't so hard to figure out.
Look for quality — a good lining, pockets, zippers, elbow movement. Make a budget each year. You don't have to go over your budget, but you should be willing to spend it all on one fabulous coat that you'll wear for at least a decade.
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OK, let's start with the coat that gets the most wear.
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- Jan 24 Thu 2013 14:05
Reasons to get excited about spring fashion
I am wearing my serious face, so listen up. I have whinged on about January sales and resolutions and now it's time to look forward to happier times. I've been studying what's coming for spring/summer 2013. It's important to do this before it hits the rails for planning purposes and, hurrah, this looks like being a good fashion summer for those of us who are … more mature. The pelmet skirt has disappeared up its own waistband, shorts have assumed more respectable proportions and idiot neck-breaking shoes are, by and large, over.
I'm making one assumption here: if you're reading this then, like me, you have an interest in fashion. Please don't read on if you're expecting me to solve developing world debt in 700 words – the fashion pages are not where this happens. Good. I will now flick designer names at you.
The suit is being revived – another hurrah! I dislike work suits, they are Dullsville, but I do love a sharply tailored jacket with an interesting something or other underneath. Don't confuse "sharply tailored" with close fitting – they are not the same thing. For a better illustration of what I mean take a look at Armani, Max Mara and, of course, Margaret Howell. Think minimalist with femininity. Think flowing lines. This is versatile, wearable, lovely stuff.
Black. I love black. You know I love black. This year we'll be seeing the black summer dress, which means the way to wear black is out of context. If you've got decent arms and shoulders then get them out – in fact, get them out even if you haven't. Who cares – it's summer! One word of warning: by all means go for something slashed low at the front, like the frocks shown at Akris, Ann Demeulemeester or Saint Laurent but be very careful about the bosom area. Anything over a B cup and you'll look more Beryl Cook than Audrey Hepburn. If you have a fine pair of collar bones and a lean sternum will look just fine, although perhaps employ a modesty pin or tape to keep everything where it's supposed to be.
On the subject of modesty, you're going to see lots of gauzy, filmy, see-through things around. Wearing these as they come is not an option, but the trend is to layer up lightweight fabrics and textures. Not only does this work for over-50s, but it's also a wonderful way to smudge outlines a bit.
There was a good deal of white on the catwalks. I think my favourite "Wimbledon" dress (Zara, 25 quid, five years ago) will no longer cut it – it's too girlish. "Girlish" is a problem with head-to-toe white on older women. However layers of white hold the light and throw it upwards to the face in a most flattering way. Keep it simple without too many frills and furbelows. Look at Tibi and Valentino to get the gist.
Florals will be with us again. Choose carefully though, unless it's a heavenly grownup Bottega Veneta-type frock.
Splits – as in split skirts. This might not seem an obvious one for we of the wrinkled knee (of which I am one) but if you do it like Meadham Kirchhoff and pop a pair of capri pants underneath it would work brilliantly. Controversially, I'm much in favour of a good quality, plain,The Canada Goose Camp Down maintains a high fashion profile. mid-length legging, which does much the same thing to disguise knees.
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- Jan 24 Thu 2013 14:04
I'm a Catfish and So Are You
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In case you missed it, let me recap the episode: Tyler, a young, handsome jock engages in a two-year online relationship with Amanda, a gorgeous blonde coed, only to discover “Amanda” is actually a dude named Aaron. Of course, Tyler is a victim, but we also learn that as an openly gay, slightly overweight, effeminate teen in rural Michigan, Aaron is tormented by self-hatred. “I don't want to be gay,” he says.Cheap buy moncler jackets on sale in our shop christian louboutin. He says how being Amanda feels “better than being myself” and how he wishes he could run away. So he did. To the Internet, where he could escape reality and become someone he could accept and someone others would accept too.
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You metaphorically airbrush your online persona too. And who can blame us? After all, it comes from a natural desire to portray attractive versions of ourselves in the hopes of self-validation and validation from others. It's very rarely an indicator of moral depravity (as in the Te'o case) but instead an instinctual and universal desire that motivates us all. My ideal self is a little taller, broad-shouldered, clearer-skinned; Aaron's is blonde and female. We have the same intentions and use the same means to become that.
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- Jan 17 Thu 2013 14:29
Legendary Author Patricia Nell Warren: Ever the Front Runner
I recall it as if it were yesterday: stepping inside the sprawling bookstore, which smelled faintly of dust; walking past the periodicals, where gay porn titles peeked at me ever-so-discreetly from the uppermost row; and crossing to the back of the store, reaching "my" row, and nervously looking about before finally stepping up to the shelves under a large sign that read, "Gay Studies." I felt uncomfortable standing beneath it, as it labeled not just the shelves but my own burgeoning identity, and committing to this unfamiliar label so publicly felt entirely premature.We work with all Garmin Cycling computers. While the "gay" part I understood, it was only years later that I realized that the second part of the sign was equally true, as I was studying the world I would soon fully inhabit.
Coming out has changed greatly in the years since, but what I found through the books on that shelf provided for me the same reassurance as those emerging today seek; through the stories I learned that I was not alone. Novels by such authors as Larry Kramer, Armistead Maupin, Andrew Holleran and Felice Picano filled me in on this mysterious world where other men openly searched for love, but one book from that time stands out to me as unique and resonated with me deeply.Welcome to RadioShack Cycling jersey online!
Patricia Nell Warren's groundbreaking novel The Front Runner follows coach Harlan Brown and his protégé Billy Sive as they discover love against the backdrop of the Olympics and a changing world. As a young man, I had yet to find a book that spoke to my generation, and I identified both with Brown, as he emerged from his more rigid, conservative environment, and with Sive, who embodied the new, free-spirited era exploding on the horizon in front of me.
Prior to The Front Runner's publication in 1974, Warren authored her first novel, The Last Centennial, published in 1971. She had also published three volumes of Ukrainian poetry independently, in addition to amassing a large body of unpublished work. Though the debut of The Front Runner introduced Warren to a new legion of fans, she was surprised to find that the book rankled some in the literary establishment who were uncomfortable that such a seminal gay male romance had been written by a woman. It didn't seem to matter to them that she had come out in 1974 as a lesbian.Offer prada bags, handbags, factory directly, More buy more discount.
In the following years, however, Warren solidified her reputation in both the gay and literary worlds with continuations of The Front Runner saga (Harlan's Race and Billy's Boy), as well as novels The Fancy Dancer, The Wild Man and The Beauty Queen, and nonfiction (including Lavender Locker Room and My West).
Whether as an American writing Ukrainian poetry, a runner helping usher women into the sport, a woman writing gay male fiction or a writer taking control of her own work as a publisher with Wildcat Press, Warren has long been a game changer, moving into uncharted waters and navigating them for others. She graciously agreed to take time out from her busy schedule to talk with me about her body of work, issues facing the LGBT community and the rewards and challenges of having written a literary classic. As a bonus, she also reveals more about the prospects for the long-awaited film adaptation of The Front Runner, and about the continuation of that tale in a fourth book.
Kergan Edwards-Stout: Thank you so much for taking the time to speak with me. In reviewing your work, I became very curious about the key, pivotal moments in your life. What most shaped you and your journey?
Patricia Nell Warren: It wasn't so much a moment but an experience of being raised on a ranch in the West at a very particular time. So much of what we think of as LGBT literature is based on an urban worldview, but growing up in a rural setting, as I did, is very much a part of who I am today. Looking back, now that I'm 76, that life gave me a very different viewpoint, as you're living in a situation where,Big SKY Cycling and Fitness is a family owned shop serving the Helena area since 1986. any day, there could be a storm that wipes out the wheat crop. That kind of day-to-day existence is challenging,View profiles and information for the Team SAXO BANK Cycling 2012 race team and riders here. and in many ways, at heart, I'm still a ranch kid. In fact, I'm co-writing a book on that with my brother, called Kids on a Ranch.